Drifting on, increasing the list of those you dislike, avoid them at all costs, cutting off family and friends is not the message that Jesus Christ was trying to bring. Hard as it is to expunge dislike for those you are unkind or worst to us, we have to keep an open heart; otherwise they infect us with the poison from a relationship gone wrong, that we carry that in us, infecting all we do.

Gospel Mt 5:43-48